You recently broke up with your co-worker or that guy/girl in your class that you have to see and deal with everyday for years? This might help you!!
Steps
1. Accept the fact that you two are no longer together and act in that way. You don’t want him/her or his/her friends to say that you’re not over that person and you want him/her back.
2. Don’t avoid him/her. It won’t help you to get over the breaking up and it could make things worse. You can’t avoid a person for years. Just be friendly but ONLY if the other person is open to this idea.
3. Don’t talk about the break-up to everyone and tell everyone how bad he/she was. Just let it go.
4. Don’t blame yourself for anything. Just say it didn’t work out, it wasn’t meant to be…
5. Be confident in front of him/her and don’t try to make him/her jealous and don’t try to pick his/her attention by doing anything stupid.
6. Time is the healer of all wounds…It’s true, though you have to see that person everyday, it doesn’t mean you won’t get over him/her. You can do it, just love yourself more and be sure that if it didn’t work so he/she is not the right person for you…
Tips
* If you see him with someone, don’t act in a jealous way even if you are!
* Don’t try to make him/her jealous by having a relationship with the first person that likes you.
* Don’t be in a rush to be in another relationship just wait for the right one, he/she will come when it’s the best time.
* Don’t keep thinking that he/she will regret it and try to see if he/she does.
* If you can, have friends that support you and ask them to not talk about him/her as your ex but as your friend!!
* Consider him/her as your FRIEND!! Not your ex!!
Warnings
* If you tried to be friendly with this person and he/she keeps avoiding you, just drop it this person isn’t worth your friendship.
* Don’t be overly nice and don’t flirt just for fun because he/she might take it wrong or as a try to get back together.
That doesn’t work he try’s to flirt with me but I can’t get back together with him because he has a girlfriend!
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I have this guy that gets on my bus and we see each other around school too, he is in year 11 and im in year 10 we dated for a while n it was good and that but he never really talked to me that much and its cause hes nervous and stuff so i told him we should just be friends and we are but i keep thinking to myself i should still be with him and that i just, and well i am tempted to just say lets try again because i no he liked me way more than i liked him (i did like him though) but i no i shouldnt … help me pls!! x
cnt gt ova m ex hu broke up w m…t hurts ve 2c hm eryde n he walks around as f nuin hpnd m s hurt n confused bn cryin o l wk…help
Well, I’ve been broke up with my guy for 8 months. I didn’t rush into anything I’ve had one semi-serious relationship since him and tried talking to a guy or two. It seems to just make things worse. It makes me compare and notice how they aren’t him. And he avoids me and we have a lot of the same friends. If I walk up in the circle he will run away. I feel terrible because we were really great friends before. I don’t know what to do.
There’s nothing you can do to get over a guy but wait….time is the only healer to these type of wounds…you can’t just start “liking” another guy…I’ve tried, it doesn’t work, and you can’t get over a guy so easily…sure, love is the greatest emotion, but it also comes as a package with the worst: pain.
My ex is my bestfriend, and i cant get out of it because its been like a year and i cant get over him because he genually thinks that im the bestest friend in the world and he tells me everything. and is always texting and hugging me, and calling me when he wants to talk IM IN A DEEP HOLE and i have no idea what to do.
I had a bf and he hurt me. he thinks i broke up with him but i didntt it and i loved him. but he thinks i hurt him. when really, he hurt me. and i cried but i acted strong. and so he thought i didnt care. btw. we never held hands in the halls. now he and his new gf walk around holding hands.
if they leave u for you ex.. simple.. u just didnt do it for them.. sorry… i had so many in bewteen boyfriends just cuase my ex was being a jerk .. but the moment he came back to me..i left anyone i was i with.. its sucks..
wait what..? Men get over women? I’m a man. I’m equally hurting as you. Can’t get over this girl for months now. Have to see her every day. I know she’ll never love me back. But I have to live with it and move on.
It’s not easy. It’s not simple. And I have no clue what to do.
It’s so damn difficult to act like nothing’s wrong. I can’t eat. I can’t work. I can’t sleep. I’m madly in love with the girl, and she treats me like crap. Now she makes fun of me at office for being “weak” because I told her that I still love her.
Hi, being in love is not weak, but a strong thing!!!
I really liked but seems like now I loved her…but she left me for her ex! Her answer was…that she’s confused! She really hurt my feelings. I have to see her in my classes all the time. We are just friends now…thats what she thinks.I can’t get over her! WTF I frekin cant sleep at nights! I am surprised myself……. I wish there was a pill for this or something =(
ive on 10 different websites and they all say the same freakn thing!!! but no one can really help you mend a broken heart. i dated a guy i worked with for a year and a half and now he has a girlfriend and i have to see it all. he buys her flowers and does everything with her that he never did with me. i try not to act like hurts but does. i dont understand why men are able to get over women! and we sit around confused wondering what wrong with us. i say forget them all
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